What Love Is

I know what love is.  It's big.  Anytime loves looks small to you, it's not really love.  Anytime something holds you back, or constrains you in any way, it's not love.  Anyone who tells you they love you and attempts to keep you from fully expressing who you are does not love you.  When you feel full, expansive, free, generous, happy.... then look for love.  I'm not convinced we can really feel another person's love in the way they want to give it... I only know that we can feel our own.  Often it is unexpressibly immense.... at which point we as pitiful humans lose all our words.